This story is very ordinary nowadays: A man and a woman from different lands meet each other on some free dating site. This Russian single woman likes him, and he is head over heels in love! They exchange winks and kisses, write beautiful poetic letters to each other, he sends her flowers using Russian mail order for brides, so they become very close and can’t imagine a day without each other.

Then he asks her if he can call her and unexpectedly, she refuses. When he asks if she can come to his place, she says she is not ready. He tries to find out what’s happening, and she can’t explain. Or perhaps she doesn’t want to?

This indecision of your beautiful Russian lady is typical of majority of Russian people. One of the most popular classical writings in Russia is a sad novel by Goncharov, “Oblomov”. This man, Oblomov, is dreaming of love, beautiful life and ideal home. However, when he faces the need to do some action to fulfill his dreams, he is scared and puts up with grey reality of his life.

What makes the difference between eastern and western philosophy is the attitude to life. Russian people are more eastern, they prefer contemplation rather than action. So if your beautiful Russian bride isn’t brave enough to speak on the phone or to meet, this does not necessarily mean that she doesn’t like you. Perhaps she’s just scared or afraid of changes. And if you love her, perhaps it’s you who should take action and come to see your beautiful Russian lady.

They say that our character is molded during the first years of our life. At this life period everything matters: people around, the environment, events that happen in kid’s life and of course, the information a child receives. Fairy tales have a strong influence on people’s psyche; these are unbelievable stories about challenges, courage, luck and final reward.

You may be puzzled, why Russian ladies are so perfectly beautiful, so faultless? The answer is to be searched in the keynote of a Russian fairy-tale. Ivan the Fool lies on a Russian stove and does nothing till he is 33. Then he suddenly sets out for a dangerous journey full of challenges and threats, looking for Happiness.

In the beginning of the journey he stays at the crossroads with the signs: If you go to the left, you’ll find death. If you go to the right, you’ll find a horse. If you go straight, you’ll find a wife.
In many Russian tales Ivan the Fool chooses the way leading to wife, though this action was supposed to be foolish. Anybody in his shoes would have chosen a horse, which could be helpful during the dangerous journey.

However, in the end Ivan finds a beautiful Russian woman for marriage, her name is Helen the Beautiful or Helen the Wise. It doesn’t mean though that Russian girls are either Beautiful or Wise! As a rule, they mix beauty and wisdom. As for Ivan, after getting married with Helen, he is no longer Ivan the Fool, but he becomes Prince Ivan.

Actually, there’s nothing surprising in desire of beautiful Russian girls to be perfect. They know that a woman must be wise and beautiful, like Helen from the fairy-tale, and then men will cope with challenges and dangers to marry her. (Or in your case look through all the free Russian dating sites available in search of her). Russian women also understand, that with the right attitude, the most desperate man will become the prince. That’s why beautiful Russian ladies do their best for their men to believe in themselves and get the happiness they have been looking for.

You may remember the history of Tolstoy’s novel “Anna Karenina”. Leo Tolstoy was sitting in the theatre when he suddenly noticed a fantastic, breathtaking, slender white arm on the rail. Some beautiful russian lady was hidden by the shade of the box, and her arm was the only thing he could see. Tolstoy decided that this arm belonged to an extraordinary lady, and that this lady must have an extraordinary fate. So he made up this mysterious woman in his imagination and gave her the name Anna Karenina.

This story is typical of Russian mentality. Russian single ladies all know how to catch attention of men and make them obsessed with them, even long after marriage. The secret is simple: always to stay a mystery.

One of the most famous and popular poems in Russian is “A Stranger” by Alexander Block. It describes a woman in mourning. She is wearing silks, jewellery, ostrich feathers and a dark veil, hiding her face. She is aristocratic, but spends evenings in a dirty inn. She is thoughtful and as if not real. The mystery of this enigmatic girl is driving the poet crazy. And when he finally looks through the dark veil, he sees the beauty of the whole world in her deep blue eyes.

Now imagine that all Russian single brides were brought up in Russian culture, cultivating the image of extremely beautiful, feminine and enigmatic woman. Beautiful Russian women add this knowledge to their armoury. So dating Russian brides will never be boring! And if you’re good at solving riddles, then perhaps you should look for your mysterious “stranger” at Russian brides sites and other free dating sites, and try dating mysterious Russian girls.

Recently a Beautiful Russian Lady has become the brand, luring men to enigmatic cold Russia in search of a girl for marriage. A skeptical man could say that it’s impossible for all Russian girls to be beautiful, decent, devoted and honest. That’s true. However, every nation has an ideal image, a pattern to follow, which people strive to correspond to.

In the west women are obsessed with the American dream, which is making them ambitious, hard-working, purposeful and strong. Women want to climb the ladder or achieve success in their own business.

Beautiful Russian women are not better or worse than western ladies, they are just different. Andreas, a friend of mine, once came from Germany to Russia to see me. He was very surprised to see that 90 per cent of women wear skirts and high heels in the street. Indeed, a dress and high heels is a standard set for a Russian woman. The second thing he noted was the enormous amount of playgrounds for children here and there. “In Germany women don’t want children anymore”, he said.

Russian single ladies dream of house and home, of family happiness, where every morning sweethearts will be awaken by children’s laughter. They can be successful in business and be well set off, but if they don’t have a happy family, they don’t think they have succeeded in life. Nowadays there are a lot of free Russian dating sites where it’s possible to meet and date ladies from Russia, and finally, some day find the one – your beautiful Russian woman.

If you’re a member of a Russian dating site and if you’re seriously looking for a Russian woman for marriage, then you should know things that can alienate your beautiful Russian lady from you. The most common mistake of men during their correspondence and dating Russian ladies is speaking on sexual topics and using erotic nicknames.

The Russian female ideal is beautiful Turgenev’s girls. Turgenev wrote a series of stories, whose characters were amazing women. They were cute, innocent and modest. Turgenev and other Russian writers who were praising female virtue and modesty had a great influence on Russian conception of an ideal woman.

Also, the Soviet rule was cultivating the image of a strong working woman who is patriotic, modest and very virtuous. Intimate life of people was considered to be something obscene. Therefore, everybody was pretending that children were brought by a stork.

All in all, sending mail with erotic contents to Russian brides is a mistake. It is a taboo topic for Russian brides looking for marriage, and if you touch upon them, women will think you’re not serious and they can even stop the correspondence. However, the good news is that you can chat with Russian brides on site about anything else – arts, weather, nature, people, events, stupid jokes – just anything! And when she gets used to you – who knows, perhaps some day she’ll start first to discuss things you want to talk about